I Can’t Seem to Move From Dating to a Relationship

I can't seem to move from dating to a relationshipAre you able to get dates but feel ambivalent about relationships?


Do you keep attracting the same types of guys?


Unsure what a fulfilling partnership would look like? How does it work? What makes it successful?


If you can’t answer these questions clearly, don’t panic. Not many people can answer these questions with clarity. Most of us want a fulfilling life partnership and have no idea how to create one or where to even start. Even couples in successful long-term relationships have little insight into why they are successful. First, we must find our “vision” and determine what we want in a relationship.


Tips For Finding Your “Vision” in a Relationship


  • Your “Vision” is what you want for your life and your relationship. It is below the surface, just waiting to be discovered.
  • Your Vision is a powerful part of you that drives your energy, thoughts, feelings, wants, needs, and choices.
  • Your Vision serves as your inner guidance system, moving you toward certain choices and away from other choices.
  • Getting clear about your Vision in a relationship will help you find clarity and feel confident about your relationship choices.


Get Support to Find Love


Creating a meaningful and specific Vision is hard to do alone. It’s the second part of our 3-month Relationship Coaching Program. Relationship coach Sue De Santo, LCSW, will help you overcome barriers to help you find the love of your life. Call (312) 213-2395 for a free relationship coaching strategy session.


Sue is amazing to work with! She is thorough and asks thought-provoking questions that make you challenge your assumptions and old habits. She is resourceful, organized, supportive and professional. Her workbook and assignments really help discern what type of relationship you are looking for and create a plan to attract the right person. Sue has guided me from not dating at all to seeing my choices in the buffet of men in the world!

Thank you for all of your help.

—JF, Norridge

I have worked with Sue De Santo and I am so grateful for her expertise, wisdom, guidance, and encouragement. Through her Relationship Coaching Program, Sue expertly led me through exercises and discussions to explore who I was, my past relationship experience and most importantly where I wanted to go and what kind of relationship I was looking for. I feel like I have blossomed under her supervision which has allowed me to become the person I want to be and to find the healthy, enriching and satisfying relationship that I wanted and deserved. She encouraged me to partake of the “dating buffet” and I did and got great results and had a lot of fun doing it. Thank you Sue!

—BS, Chicago

After participating in Sue’s three month program, I’m clearer on my relationship requirements and feel better equipped to connect deeply with others. Thought provoking exercises and her patient guidance made this experience better than other books and programs I’ve tried in the past!

—CS, Cincinnati

I highly recommend Sue DeSanto as a compassionate and supportive relationship coach. She is intuitive, knowledgeable and effectively uses the emotional freedom techniques to clear old patterns and beliefs. She is a great thought partner to work with as you explore your relationship to dating as well as while you begin a relationship and work through the inherent uncertainties and questions that process brings up. She has a great sense of humor to bring lightness to the work. And she is generous in sharing her experiences in ways that may inform your own.

—JT, Chicago

Susan is kind and compassionate and helped me get at the heart of what has been holding me back from finding the relationship I want and need. I appreciate all she’s done so far and look forward to continuing my journey with her coaching and guidance.

—NT, Chicago

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