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Can’t get a date?


Sick of never moving from dating into a relationship?


Maybe you’ve just re-entered the dating world after getting a divorce?


Or maybe you’re too scared to ask someone out?


No matter what question above you said “yes” to, the solutions all share a common thread: clarity and confidence.


Often we are not clear about what we want or need in a relationship, so we are destined to repeat the old relationship stories which keep us feeling stuck and alone.


So if whatever you’ve been doing hasn’t been working, then keep reading.


Relationship Coach Sue De Santo can help you identify the patterns that are keeping you from having a happy and healthy relationship. She will then work with you to build your confidence. Are you ready to stop feeling alone and take responsibility for your dating life? Sue will give you the clarity and confidence to get what you want out of a relationship.


You may be thinking, “Is this the same thing as a dating coach?” Relationship Coaching is different, as it helps you understand what you want and need in a relationship, as well as in your life. If you are ready to do something different than what you have been doing up until now, please join Sue on this journey.


About The Relationship Coaching Program


The three-month relationship coaching program focuses on singles who are ready for a relationship and want to attract a life partner. This program will:


  • Identify what it is that hasn’t been working for you
  • Give you a new view on dating and relationships
  • Uncover what you really want in a relationship
  • Help you discover the relationship you deserve
  • Develop a mindful approach to dating


At the end of this program you will be so clear and confident about what you need and want in your relationships that you will automatically attract your ideal partner.


Included in this package are three monthly one-on-one coaching calls and additional email support to keep you motivated and help you stay on track.

Sue helps you get straight to the heart of the matter. She has a gentle way of guiding you to uncover the whys behind your challenges and helps you shift to a new place in life. I had been stuck in a long rut of dating men that were unavailable. After working with Sue and her method, she helped me get out of that rut and put me on a clear path to more meaningful and positive relationships.

—LM, Chicago

It is 5 months into my relationship with Bill. He has a strong spiritual connection and has done lots of personal growth work. He clearly is open to a relationship with someone who has shared values and someone who wants to continue to evolve and deepen in partnership. And he dances!!  He lives in Naples for 7 months, as do I. His other home is in Santa Fe. I just returned from spending 10 magical days with him there. He and I have several trips planned for the summer so we can maintain our connection, share experiences traveling, and continue our path of deepening and evolving as a committed couple.


I am beyond happy, and with all the healing work you and I did together, I wanted to share with you that it has made a remarkable difference. I feel centered, open and committed to continuing to evolve as a person and in partnership with a man who is equally committed to co-creating a healthy and flourishing partnership.


In deep gratitude and with a happy and warm heart.

—SL, Chicago

Sue is amazing to work with! She is thorough and asks thought-provoking questions that make you challenge your assumptions and old habits. She is resourceful, organized, supportive and professional. Her workbook and assignments really help discern what type of relationship you are looking for and create a plan to attract the right person. Sue has guided me from not dating at all to seeing my choices in the buffet of men in the world!

Thank you for all of your help.

—JF, Norridge

I have worked with Sue De Santo and I am so grateful for her expertise, wisdom, guidance, and encouragement. Through her Relationship Coaching Program, Sue expertly led me through exercises and discussions to explore who I was, my past relationship experience and most importantly where I wanted to go and what kind of relationship I was looking for. I feel like I have blossomed under her supervision which has allowed me to become the person I want to be and to find the healthy, enriching and satisfying relationship that I wanted and deserved. She encouraged me to partake of the “dating buffet” and I did and got great results and had a lot of fun doing it. Thank you Sue!

—BS, Chicago

After participating in Sue’s three month program, I’m clearer on my relationship requirements and feel better equipped to connect deeply with others. Thought provoking exercises and her patient guidance made this experience better than other books and programs I’ve tried in the past!

—CS, Cincinnati

I highly recommend Sue DeSanto as a compassionate and supportive relationship coach. She is intuitive, knowledgeable and effectively uses the emotional freedom techniques to clear old patterns and beliefs. She is a great thought partner to work with as you explore your relationship to dating as well as while you begin a relationship and work through the inherent uncertainties and questions that process brings up. She has a great sense of humor to bring lightness to the work. And she is generous in sharing her experiences in ways that may inform your own.

—JT, Chicago

Susan is kind and compassionate and helped me get at the heart of what has been holding me back from finding the relationship I want and need. I appreciate all she’s done so far and look forward to continuing my journey with her coaching and guidance.

—NT, Chicago

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